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		<title>By: thatbottle</title>
		<link>http://www.petertan.com/blog/2005/10/24/an-apology/comment-page-3/#comment-4759</link>
		<dc:creator>thatbottle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Oct 2005 17:47:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1) Disabled toilets are for disabled people only.

2) Xiaxue has become pretty much a public figure to some extend, where her opinions may influence others.

Point 1) is something disabled people has always been deprieved of their rights.   It&#039;s as good as saying, all toilets are for male only.  Females pee wherever.  Disabled people and abled people have fight for that right and that right has been recognized.  It&#039;s not a previlege.  The spacy toilet, it&#039;s a necessity.

And then, we have Xiaxue (point 2)) blogging about toilets for the disabled.  The impression is that, she&#039;s questioning the right.  What PTan did, being proactive in this issue is, like what some women had done in the past, demanding rights; what rose did in the bus stop.

And to XX&#039;s fan, and like what suanie said, XX is also doing underhand work by editing OUT bad comments from her blog.  Please realize that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1) Disabled toilets are for disabled people only.</p>
<p>2) Xiaxue has become pretty much a public figure to some extend, where her opinions may influence others.</p>
<p>Point 1) is something disabled people has always been deprieved of their rights.   It&#8217;s as good as saying, all toilets are for male only.  Females pee wherever.  Disabled people and abled people have fight for that right and that right has been recognized.  It&#8217;s not a previlege.  The spacy toilet, it&#8217;s a necessity.</p>
<p>And then, we have Xiaxue (point 2)) blogging about toilets for the disabled.  The impression is that, she&#8217;s questioning the right.  What PTan did, being proactive in this issue is, like what some women had done in the past, demanding rights; what rose did in the bus stop.</p>
<p>And to XX&#8217;s fan, and like what suanie said, XX is also doing underhand work by editing OUT bad comments from her blog.  Please realize that.</p>
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		<title>By: Sharon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sharon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Oct 2005 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The reason why religion is being brought in here is that your friend publicizes and publicly declares that he is a Catholic, and tries to portray himself as a great one at that. Put it this way, he has even more of a reason to have good PR than Xiaxue, since he represents someone far more important than three measly sponsors--he is the representative of not only the Catholic/Christian (if you don&#039;t believe that there&#039;s a difference) population, but also of his God. While I can understand that not every Catholic can live up to the standards set, it is the blatant hypocrisy of Peter&#039;s actions that is causing a lot of people to stumble. He not only should have governed himself far better, but he should have apologized. And judging from his next post, he still doesn&#039;t see anything wrong with taking her comments out of context. 

So before you ask a stupid question like &quot;I don&#039;t know why people are bringing in religion to this&quot;, might I suggest that you use your brain and understand that for many people, religion doesn&#039;t divorce itself easily from one&#039;s actions, public or private. If he declares his religion as openly as he does, then he opens himself to judgement based on it. If he can&#039;t deal with it, or you can&#039;t, well boo-fucking-hoo. 

He also doesn&#039;t seem to have a problem with himself making disparaging remarks about Xiaxue. Should I start taking his comment about menses running down her legs out of context and scream &quot;oh my fucking god he&#039;s being sexist!!!! I&#039;m going to tell the Malaysian press all about it and make sure he gets what&#039;s coming to him!&quot; Because that&#039;s the equivalent of what he did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The reason why religion is being brought in here is that your friend publicizes and publicly declares that he is a Catholic, and tries to portray himself as a great one at that. Put it this way, he has even more of a reason to have good PR than Xiaxue, since he represents someone far more important than three measly sponsors&#8211;he is the representative of not only the Catholic/Christian (if you don&#8217;t believe that there&#8217;s a difference) population, but also of his God. While I can understand that not every Catholic can live up to the standards set, it is the blatant hypocrisy of Peter&#8217;s actions that is causing a lot of people to stumble. He not only should have governed himself far better, but he should have apologized. And judging from his next post, he still doesn&#8217;t see anything wrong with taking her comments out of context. </p>
<p>So before you ask a stupid question like &#8220;I don&#8217;t know why people are bringing in religion to this&#8221;, might I suggest that you use your brain and understand that for many people, religion doesn&#8217;t divorce itself easily from one&#8217;s actions, public or private. If he declares his religion as openly as he does, then he opens himself to judgement based on it. If he can&#8217;t deal with it, or you can&#8217;t, well boo-fucking-hoo. </p>
<p>He also doesn&#8217;t seem to have a problem with himself making disparaging remarks about Xiaxue. Should I start taking his comment about menses running down her legs out of context and scream &#8220;oh my fucking god he&#8217;s being sexist!!!! I&#8217;m going to tell the Malaysian press all about it and make sure he gets what&#8217;s coming to him!&#8221; Because that&#8217;s the equivalent of what he did.</p>
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		<title>By: Doenat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Doenat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2005 09:23:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with you Anotherfool. I do not understand why people just love to pick on religion and nationality on this matter. I don&#039;t see there will be such a fuss if peter&#039;s a singaporean. If a big company such as pepsi stop endorsing for a superstar by a mere email then it&#039;s really laughable. And please stop flaming peter just because he wrote a single email to all of XX&#039;s endorsers. Peter is not the prime minister and why don&#039;t you try flaming ethan too? Sheesh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you Anotherfool. I do not understand why people just love to pick on religion and nationality on this matter. I don&#8217;t see there will be such a fuss if peter&#8217;s a singaporean. If a big company such as pepsi stop endorsing for a superstar by a mere email then it&#8217;s really laughable. And please stop flaming peter just because he wrote a single email to all of XX&#8217;s endorsers. Peter is not the prime minister and why don&#8217;t you try flaming ethan too? Sheesh.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://www.petertan.com/blog/2005/10/24/an-apology/comment-page-3/#comment-4702</link>
		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2005 01:11:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And to Jason, you said

&lt;i&gt;&quot;Opinions are opinions&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

Good, then go and tell this to the Singapore court about the two convicted bloggers that their remarks about the other race were just OPINIONS and hey, &quot;opinions are opinions&quot;! Pffft.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And to Jason, you said</p>
<p><i>&#8220;Opinions are opinions&#8221;</i></p>
<p>Good, then go and tell this to the Singapore court about the two convicted bloggers that their remarks about the other race were just OPINIONS and hey, &#8220;opinions are opinions&#8221;! Pffft.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2005 01:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To shishi and all those who thought that xx was &quot;just saying that one handicap man was rude&quot;, pls read her entries again:

&lt;i&gt;&quot;How come people have this notion that only the disabled can use facilities for the disabled?&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

&lt;i&gt;&quot; ... our government spent millions of taxpayers&#039; money to build so many facilities for the physically disabled, and only they are allowed to use it?&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;My inconvenience for waiting for other toilets plus my liking for big spaces&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;

We are into these ridiculous hypothetical examples again huh? About what food poisoning and period dribbling down her thighs? All the WHAT IFs to justify her irresposible comments huh? Why don&#039;t you think of these WHAT IFs: 

So WHAT IF not one but ten, twenty, thirty, or even everyone who doesn&#039;t have an disability regard the accessible toilet as just &lt;i&gt;another&lt;/i&gt; normal toilet because they all think &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;how come people have this notion that only the disabled can use facilities for the disabled?&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;? Then what will be the odds that the accessible toilet will ever be available for those really in need, given that there are a lot more able-bodied people than the disabled?

So WHAT IF everyone starts using accessible toilet beacause they think that how come  &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;our government spent millions of taxpayers&#039; money to build so many facilities for the physically disabled, and only they are allowed to use it&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;? What will be the odds for it to still remain clean and the facility not damaged??

So WHAT IF a disabled person needs the toilet to perform his intermittent catheterisation, goes around the mall to only find this one accessible toilet but only to discover that someone able-bodied is inside because of his &lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&quot;inconvenience for waiting for other toilets plus liking for big spaces&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;???

Do you see the implications of what she wrote? It wasn&#039;t about just THAT ONE DISABLED PERSON but making irresponsible statements when she is supposed to be a &quot;celebrity&quot;.

Furthermore, you really think that by just ONE Malaysian blogger writing to Singapore companies could cause her endorsements if there was nothing wrong with what she wrote at all? Get real!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To shishi and all those who thought that xx was &#8220;just saying that one handicap man was rude&#8221;, pls read her entries again:</p>
<p><i>&#8220;How come people have this notion that only the disabled can use facilities for the disabled?&#8221;</i></p>
<p><i>&#8221; &#8230; our government spent millions of taxpayers&#8217; money to build so many facilities for the physically disabled, and only they are allowed to use it?&#8221;</i></p>
<p><b><i>&#8220;My inconvenience for waiting for other toilets plus my liking for big spaces&#8221;</i></b></p>
<p>We are into these ridiculous hypothetical examples again huh? About what food poisoning and period dribbling down her thighs? All the WHAT IFs to justify her irresposible comments huh? Why don&#8217;t you think of these WHAT IFs: </p>
<p>So WHAT IF not one but ten, twenty, thirty, or even everyone who doesn&#8217;t have an disability regard the accessible toilet as just <i>another</i> normal toilet because they all think <b><i>&#8220;how come people have this notion that only the disabled can use facilities for the disabled?&#8221;</i></b>? Then what will be the odds that the accessible toilet will ever be available for those really in need, given that there are a lot more able-bodied people than the disabled?</p>
<p>So WHAT IF everyone starts using accessible toilet beacause they think that how come  <b><i>&#8220;our government spent millions of taxpayers&#8217; money to build so many facilities for the physically disabled, and only they are allowed to use it&#8221;</i></b>? What will be the odds for it to still remain clean and the facility not damaged??</p>
<p>So WHAT IF a disabled person needs the toilet to perform his intermittent catheterisation, goes around the mall to only find this one accessible toilet but only to discover that someone able-bodied is inside because of his <b><i>&#8220;inconvenience for waiting for other toilets plus liking for big spaces&#8221;</i></b>???</p>
<p>Do you see the implications of what she wrote? It wasn&#8217;t about just THAT ONE DISABLED PERSON but making irresponsible statements when she is supposed to be a &#8220;celebrity&#8221;.</p>
<p>Furthermore, you really think that by just ONE Malaysian blogger writing to Singapore companies could cause her endorsements if there was nothing wrong with what she wrote at all? Get real!</p>
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