Nurturer Of Life: Close To Heart – The Star – 10 May, 2012

I realised that I could never reciprocate the devotion that my mother had showered on me even if I had wanted to. How does one pay back the blood, sweat and tears of a mother’s love? The only thing I can do is to live life fruitfully in her honour. She would have wanted that.

Nurturer of Life – My story about my mother’s sacrifice published in The Star on 10 May, 2012 in conjunction with Mother’s Day.
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Moving On: Close To Heart – The Star – 14 July, 2011

It took exactly two months from the time Cheng Bee of Star 2 spoke to me about contributing an article on disability to the completion and submission of the manuscript to her. In the months of April and May, I was occupied with co-facilitating Disability Equality Training workshops with Dr. Kuno of JICA.

When I finally had time to start writing, I was overwhelmed in trying to compress the 27 years of my life post spinal cord injury into 1400 words. I spent a number of days writing and rewriting, throwing out the less consequential and adding more significant events as I went along.

There were a few ocassions when I teared, especially while recalling the sacrifices my parents made for me and the last few days of my mother’s life as she slowly drifted away. Although a lot of emotions were stirred up in the course of writing, I felt a sense of fulfillment and serenity when I finally clicked the send button to submit the article.

The response from friends in Facebook and Twitter were truly encouraging. I did not set out with the intention to write an inspirational story of my life. In fact, it was anything but inspirational, seeing how long it took me to realise that there is life after spinal cord injury.

The message is simple. One should quickly go through the denial, rehabilitation and acceptance processes and move on while waiting for that elusive cure. There is no point in putting everything on hold and then realise that twenty year have passed by with nothing to show for it. It is a mistake I hope others in conditions similar to mine do not make. Viva la Vida!

Moving On - Close To Heart - The Star
Moving On – My life after spinal cord injury published on 14 July, 2011 in The Star.
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